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The 7 most common misconceptions about weddings – and what really matters

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Wedding – for many, that means a big party, a white dress, detailed planning, and as many guests as possible.
But is all of that really necessary to experience the “most beautiful day of your life”?

In this article, we’re clearing up common misconceptions – and showing you what really makes a wedding special. Maybe you’ll recognize yourself between the lines. And maybe you’ll realize: there’s another way. A more honest one.

The 7 Most Common Wedding Misconceptions

1. You only get married once – so everything has to be perfect.

Perfection is pure stress. And it often distracts from what really matters: the connection between two people. A real, touching wedding doesn’t need a spotlight – just honesty.

2. Without a big party, it’s not a real wedding.

Many believe that a wedding must be a grand event. But size doesn’t matter – what counts is that it feels right to you. Even a private ceremony by the sea can be more meaningful than any banquet hall celebration.

3. The more guests, the better the memories.

Quantity is not a measure of significance. Sometimes, it’s the small, intimate moments that stay with you forever. A look, a laugh, a promise – without an audience.

4. A wedding has to be expensive.

No, it doesn’t. It can be – but it doesn’t have to be. Many couples experience their most emotional ceremony with minimal effort. What matters is how you spend your budget – on decorations or meaningful experiences?

5. Parents, relatives, and friends must be there.

That can be a wish – but it’s not a rule. Sometimes, a wedding without family is healing, honest, or simply more authentic. Those who truly love you will understand your decision.

6. You have to marry close to home – for the guests.

Wrong. You don’t have to get married anywhere just because “it’s easier for others.” Get married where you feel a connection – whether it’s a volcano, a forest, or a remote coastline. It’s your place.

7. Everything needs to be perfectly planned and scheduled.

Planning helps – but it’s not sacred. Many of the most beautiful moments happen spontaneously. A ceremony in the wind, a kiss in the rain, a silent glance – you can’t plan that.

What truly matters can’t be booked – only felt.

If you feel your wedding can look different – smaller, quieter, freer – take a look at my page about the Elopement Wedding in Gran Canaria.
I’ll accompany you with heart, experience, and places that speak louder than words.


Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ):

1. How do I know if I truly want something – or just think I should?
Ask yourself honestly: Would we still do this if nobody was watching? If the answer is no, it’s probably an external expectation – not your true desire. Real decisions usually feel calm, clear, and light.

2. What if we’re very different – I’m minimalist, they’re traditional?
Then communication is key. Find out what truly matters to each of you – and where compromises can happen. A personal ceremony can combine both: for example, an intimate moment for two, followed by a relaxed celebration.

3. Is there a “right” way to get married?
No – and that’s the beauty of it. There’s no right or wrong, only what fits you. Whether you marry with 80 guests or barefoot on a beach – it’s right if it feels right for you.