Your personal vows – How to write a wedding promise that touches the heart
The heart of every vow renewal ceremony is your personal vows.
Authentic, deep, and truly personal
But how do you find the right words when your mind is racing with emotions?
The right beginning
Start with a moment that connects you: your first kiss, a shared adventure, or a challenge you’ve overcome together. This creates instant emotional connection.
Content and structure
Your vow can be short or long – the most important thing is that it’s genuine. Structure it like this:
- Gratitude for the past
- Appreciation for the present
- Promises for the future
Writing tips
- Jot down little thoughts during daily life.
- Collect inspiring quotes or songs.
- Use natural language, not clichés.
- Inside jokes or shared moments can be extra touching.
- Whether you read or memorize it – both are fine!
What if I’m afraid of showing emotion?
Many break into tears or laugh out loud – that’s part of the magic. Real emotion makes your vow unforgettable.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ):
- Do we have to memorize the vows?
No, many people read them or have them read as a letter. - What if my partner isn’t good at writing?
Then you can brainstorm together or get help from a celebrant. - Can we just reuse our original wedding vows?
Yes, but an updated or modernized version often feels more powerful.
